Sunday, March 30, 2008

my favourite quotes.....:) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)

"What you dislike in another take care to correct in yourself" by Thomas Sprat.

"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you've imagined" by Henry David Thoreau.

"Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anyone else expects of you.
Never excuse yourself" by Henry Ward Beecher.

"Discontent is the source of all trouble,
but also of all progress, in individuals and nations" by Berthold Auerbach.

"Life is like a game of cards. The hand that is dealt you represents determinism; the way you play it is free will" by Jawaharal Nehru.

"The reason most people never reach their goals is that they don't define them, or ever seriously consider them as believable or achievable. Winners can tell you where they are going, what they plan to do along the way, and who will be sharing the adventure with them" by Denis Watley

"If you don't have a dream, how are you going to make a dream come true?" by
Oscar Hammerstein

"Life is like a library owned by the author.
In it are a few books which he wrote himself,
but most of them were written for him" by Harry Emerson Fosdick

"The question for each man to settle is not what he would do if he had means, time, influence and educational advantages; the question is what he will do with the things he has. The moment a young man ceases to dream or to bemoan his lack of opportunities and resolutely looks his conditions in the face, and resolves to change them, he lays the corner-stone of a solid and honorable success" by Hamilton Wright Mabie.

"I like the dreams of the future better than the history of the past" by Patrick Henry.

"All men dream but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity; but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dream with open eyes to make it possible" by T.E. Lawrence.

"The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack in will" by Vince Lombardi.

"The man who makes a success of an important venture never wails for the crowd. He strikes out for himself. It takes nerve, it takes a great lot of grit; but the man that succeeds has both. Anyone can fail. The public admires the man who has enough confidence in himself to take a chance. These chances are the main things after all. The man who tries to succeed must expect to be criticized. Nothing important was ever done but the greater number consulted previously doubted the possibility. Success is the accomplishment of that which most people think can't be done" by C. V. White.

"Reputation is what men and women think of us; character is what God and angels know of us" by Thomas Paine.

"Character is a diamond that scratches every other stone" by Cyrus A. Bartol.

"Character is higher than intellect. A great soul will be strong to live, as well as strong to think" by Ralph Waldo Emerson.

one more resolution.............................:(

It’s after a long time that I am writing this post, it’s because of some unwanted situations I did not have enough time to spare with my blog, well now I have come back and have lots of time to spend with it. I thought to write regularly but I don’t know some or the other problems come in my way and I am unable to write regularly.
But today I have taken a resolution to write regularly, lets see what happens because taking resolution is my one of the weakness, whenever I decide to do something I loose my enthusiasm in the halfway of my work, and this is the problem with me from my college days whenever I think of something I make my plan but the real pains starts while implementing it, I don’t know why do I loose my enthusiasm so early, I introspected myself but could not come with any answers, I know if I have to do something , if I have to reach to zenith of success, if I have to make my dreams come true I have to stay focused and determined, i always try my best but the results are not so exciting that I can feel happy with what I am doing, whenever I work hard I never get good results, and this phenomenon is continue from class first , but on the other side whenever I took things lightly I always found myself on the top, well why it is happening I don’t know it is still a mystery. I always ask god about this but don’t know why he always remains silent. Well I don’t have any complaints about the way my life has been till now, and I don’t want to complain about it because I know life is beyond what we think and imagine so I should accept as it is………..

Saturday, March 8, 2008

if i want to succeed...............

If I want to succeed,
The path on which I proceed,
Have to be my own,
Only then I will be known.

I have to enjoy my own path,
Just to distinguish myself in a mass,
I want avoid borrowed robes,
I want to see how success comes.

I don’t want to follow fact steps,
I want to leave my own
I want to motivate others and see how
How history remembers me
With my name in gold

why am i???????

This world is like a dream, where everyone sees a dream and tries to weave the threads of dream into the cloth of reality. I may sound a bit abstruse to you guys but this is what I always think. We all are born with some innate qualities which are the important aspects of our personality-our inner personality- because our outer personality is heavily influenced by the kind of culture, circle of friends and the kind of things we get to see. in fact each and every aspects of ours is influenced and covered up by mask of superiority which confines us to the bitterly hostile world where everywhere I see the vivid illustration of what one should do, how one should live, where one should go etc.etc
But have we all thought for a moment, why do we struggle so much to live a life which ends up with nothing but lots of enigma. There has been limited jurisdiction over it and some had the unfortunate oversight exhibiting the apparent paradox of being naturally talented and benign to others. But what does really matter is how long you carry yourself? And I always find my self in confusion asking these questions. Why I am not living in the way I want to, why I am following the herd? Why am I walking on the same road as thousands of others, why don’t I choose to be different? Am I also like them or something different is there in me? I have heard people saying that everyone is gifted with something special but the misery of my life is that till now I am not been able to recognize it whether I have something in me or not. Though I have some dancing, singing and debating talent in me, so what! Thousand of others too have it. then the question is what is that talent which is hidden and which I am not been able to find in me -the true self of mine- which will give me the satisfaction that okay, this is what I should do, this is what I love to do, when will the day come when I will get a feel that I am the happiest girl on this earth and I am happy with what I am doing. I wish this day come soon when I will be out of this confusion, when I will not be walking on the road chosen or built by others but rather will built something of my own and then will walk on it. I know that I can be happy if I do what I like, I don’t want to be forced and made to work by others but this so called society and the limitations of being a social animal confines me to do what I want. I am searching for the way to come out of it and probably I will be out of it very soon till than I pray to god to give me the strength and courage to stay focused.