In love..............

When, a couple falls in love with each other. The first year passes in dreaming about each other, talking on phone, visiting all the parks, theaters, restaurants in the city. And the talks will be like
Boy:..i love you….i love you..he will keep upon saying all this to girl…..and the girl will smile from inside but thoda bhav kahne ke chakker me ..she doesn’t say I love you..as many times as he says….
Girl: she will smile at him, look down but will not say…….untill the guy ……request to her ……..
Boy:…so.. …..on phone…….…this continuous….bolo..na…i….L…….u..
Girl : ..I……A ..gap..of few minutes…..love…..again a gap…..you……bechare ladke ka to bura hal ho jata hai..ye sunne ke chakker me…….but they enjoy it,….whatever he says…..she follows….that way…...
And the whole year passes in doing all this…
When they enter in second year, they meet at one boring place…..(as they have already visited all the places, parks and restaurants. they don’t have any other place to go)...…all the sweet talk interest them no more…they no more request to each other to say I love You…..because now they have got habituated to say this. ..They sit at one place, where they meet and discuss about their daily routine…and in between all that…

A sautan comes in the form of tsunami (may be guys ex girl friend or. may be his..just friend whom he has become close in recent days..but for her-…its like tsunami wave .…..that has generated the series of earthquakes in their life)
The girl becomes over possessive about the guy when she comes to know..that the girl is his ex girlfriend and her boyfriend has met her recently…
The sweet talks turn to salty talks,..
Boy:…why the hell you always doubt me……she is just a friend of mine…..dam….(he shouts angrily)..i love u….you get that(pointing a finger towards her……)
She:…you have cheated me…I never though that you will do this to me…..bla..bla…
If the guy is honest enough the talks will end here…… but if he has really done something….wrong…..
Then….one more drama begins…….provided the sautan is also in the same college…These both girls meet…….......talk all nonsense…vo mera hai…….......the present girlfriend complains about the ex to his bf and ask him choose one of them..
Girl:……I am leaving you…..either she or me….
Boy:..please....don’t leave me,…he cries,..i love u..only…......that was my mistake…he feels sorry…..he cries…a lot….…..(yeah guys cry….when they honestly love someone …and when they have done a mistake…...)the girl softens her stand ..….these three meet at one place…......and finally after generating so many earth quakes the EX…disappears....
Second year gets over in this fashion…..

Third year…..
This time the guy turns Possessive about his girlfriend,…and he doubts his girlfriend’s ….Batch mate or…her colleagues ,..
So talks this time will be…(though the girl is still as pure as snow…..…he buzz her….saying hi..she is busy …so he again types. a message…saying…
You must be busy..with your new boy friend…when she looks at the chat box..feels happy…and say hey hi…when did u come ,.
He:…nakhre mat kao..i know...…you are busy with..someone….
She: hey kesi baate karte ho….i am working….i love u………jannu.....
He:..i know….you don’t love me anymore…because you have got someone else…..
Girl..she gets angry…and says.....shut up……...i guess…tum bore ho gaye mujhse isliye asi baate karte ho……..
He:……haan pata hai….kon bore ho gaya hai….....tum ki me…….after all ab rahul jo hai tumhare pass….a taunt…
She:….i hate you…......dam..u don’t trust me….send all sad smilies to him….he..doesn't even notice and log out….
Pure saal bher ..this nauntki continuous……
Fourth year:……since this a is true story………so I know..only about three years…..still waiting what will happen..in fourth year….(fourth year has just started………..

mummy papa

(the names are changed in this story....unbelieble but true...)
In my neighborhood, a Sharma family resided while Mr. Sharma was a employee in a private firm with little income, Mrs. Sharma was a simple home maker but still they were quite contented with their lives. They lived a quite comfortable life until Mrs. Shrama got paralysis. It was a big shock for Mr Shrama and his family as all the responsibilities were on him. They had only one son whose name was arvind. Mr Sharma main aim was to provide his son world best education so that he could become a good doctor in future. And Mr Sharma did everything for his son. After completing his 12th arvind wrote some medical entrances but could not sail through, he again wrote some entrance examsbut still he did not get anywhere. So Mr Sharma decided to send him Russia to peruse his dream. He spent all his life savings on his studies and still was very happy with his life. after completing his graduation his son enrolled himself for the PG program without having any prior consent with his dad whether he had the money or not, and told about his decision to his parents. Mr Sharma didn’t want to abort his son’s plan so he asked for a bank loan. But the EMI was so high that Mr Sharma turned down the offer and borrowed from his relatives. After completing his PG, arvind returned back to India, and fortunately got a very good job in one of the very good hospital. Mr Sharma was the happiest and proudest man in this universe as his son fulfilled his dream. Soon arvind started getting many good marriage proposals and finally got engaged with a girl kavita who was also a doctor and very soon they were married. After his marriage his relatives started pressurizing Mr Sharma. The debt was mounting on him and he was feeling very upset about it so one day he told his son about this.
mr sharma: you know arvi our relatives are asking for the money ? and you must be aware of my condition that whatever I had, I had already spent on you and right now I am running out of money as whatever I am earning I am spending on your mom’s treatment…so beta please one by one repay our relatives money so that they wont disconnect themselves from us and the contacts can be maintained for forever. I expect that you and kavitha will seriously consider it and will repay them.
son: yeah dad but I guess you must be aware of my condition too . I have just now settled in life and don’t have any bank balance. Whatever me and kavitha are earning we are saving so that we can establish a clinic of our own as it was your dream too.

Mr Sharma: but arvi, clinic can be opened after sometime too, first you must get clear of all debts so that you will not live under any pressure….and once your debts are cleared we don’t have anything too do…..and you can do whatever you like….

Son: (what my debts!!!!!!!! Dad, don’t forget its you who borrowed this money , and now because of you we are facing this problem of insolvency, You are the only one because of whom I am living under this surmounting debt…i never borrowed anything from anyone………you incurred it on your own. I am asking what was the need for you to borrow so much of money??……

Mr Sharma: beta…(.stunned)…tears are rolling down on his cheeks…speaking in a manner as if his throat is choked….beta…do you think I did it for my own pleasures….

Kavita (meddling into the conversation): I guess arvi is right…we both have to make our careers and we have just now started working and we cant repay so much….sorry to say dad…but Me and arvind have got a job in Delhi and next month we will be shifting there so plz u handle it your own……..

After this they left their parents and went to Delhi, soon mr Sharma sold his house and repaid all his debts, and with the help from some NGO he is now in a old age home in jaipur…but what is that keeps on troubling me ? how can a man leave his own mother and father like this ? who did so much for him, who cared for him all through their lives, who provided him everything that he asked for? Who always supported him in all his decisions? and at the end what they got from all their sacrifices that they made for him? If arvi was doing something wrong with his parents kavitha must have guided him , she must have understood the fact that if a man can not be of his own mother can never be of any other women in this world. So taking arvi granted could be a mistake of her and she must understand that she too has parents if someone do the same with her parents how would she feel. Anyways whatever was the problem, at least they must have not sent their parents to an old age home because they too have emotions and feelings, which they want to share with their children for whom they suffered all through their life. i am sure there they wont be able to live happily because they will be in contact with similar kind of people who have been bereft by their own son and daughters and listening to them would make them feel more worse about it.if our mom and dad are doing so much for us can’t we just provide them a space of one room and food for two times, when they were young they never asked us but now when their body has emaciated we have also left them?.....if not for anything at least , as a human being he must have not left them like this alone in a time when they need him most? is this called humanity? Remember we will also have a family and if our son and daughter for whom we will take so much of pain, if they will also the same as we are doing how would we feel. we may not understand it now but we will definitely understand it in future. I know that rising sun is always appreciated but it is the sunset which makes us feel that life is going comfortably and we will definitely see a sunrise next day.I don’t know what was wrong with their family but I find arvi guilty of everything that his parents are facing today…….

song: her baat ko tum bhulo bhale ma baap ko mat bhoolna..................

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sweet memories

Time waits for no one , a very famous cliché and yes very true in nature too . so why does time move so fast, why do years roll on with speed, why do we all worry about passing of time, why does time want us to run after it. Well when all these kind of thoughts are striking my mind today, I am feeling a bit nostalgic about my past especially my days at school and college which still fills me with joy and further adds to my inner happiness . And I m sure all of us here must be missing out our those wonderful friends in our wonderful days of school and college. Where we all enjoyed together. So today I don’t know why am I recalling those days back and feeling very happy because those were the days which I miss a lot, those were the days when I bunked classes for movies, jumped the walls of college and then got caught by principle too (many times…was known as a experienced and skillful wall jumper in my college as I know many ways of jumping walls), never attended any classes and if by mistake attended than either sleeping or gossiping were the two things that I use to do during my classes , canteen and chatting with online frnds were the activities that i did during lab hours , and taking interest in friend’s love stories and kebab me hadi banana was the most favorite pass time for me …but now everything has ended and I am alone ,I don’t have anyone to share my feelings, I don’t have anyone with whom I can go to nearest chat shop and eat pani puri, I don’t have anyone with whom I can plan for a outing , and no one is there who can suggest me thousands of ways to lie to mom & dad about picnic, now time has changed and everyone has changed & got engaged with their personal lives , now I don’t say that they shouldn’t change because I know that change is a natural process that happens with everyone of us , and I know that they have not changed themselves only situations have changed and they did no wrong in adapting themselves with time and situations and that is a good thing to do, because after all leaving the bygones behind and moving forward is the name of life. That’s why I have also decided that there could be many ways to regain the happiness of those days and the only way is living in the paradise of our sweet memories and sweet dreams which reminds us of our all happy days and I know that inside each one of us , sweet memories exist as if they are the heaven of our mind where we live in peace and comfort , enjoying all worldly pleasure and witnessing the happiest moment of our lives. These are the memories which make our lives meaningful and remind us of our good times in our most troubling days. Our memories teach us what we are and what we want to be? we all are associated with some or other memories which give us the hope for a new beginning ,a hope to dream something big and a hope to achieve something great . Sweet memories makes us to realize that we are worthy to be born as a human being and a sweet memory can be associated with any thing in our life … our parents , our frnds , partner , kids and sometimes with a stranger too who has been able to bring some smile on our face…….so my motto is to be sweet with everyone as much as possible and fill sweetness in everyone’s life with my sweet attitude and sweet talks …so people can have sweet memories of me in their heart…..but it is the time only that will test me that how longer I will remain sweet? But one thing is true that a sweet memory is the only thing in this world that lives forever in our heart and mind….rest other things just gets faded away with time and situation. here is a poem about sweet memories by a very famous poet. In quiet times I often sit And find my mind adrift To another place, another time And oh! My spirits lift! i see your happy, smiling face, and that twinkle in your eye. I hear you sing your favorite song And I laugh...and then I cry. Inside my heart Sweet Memories Stay with me each day I cherish, and I cling to them For I miss you in every way. Each thing I see... Each thing I do, brings you close to me For everything upon this earth Brings Sweet Memories of you. I imagine our reunion Some day at heaven's gate It fills my heart with happiness... But for now, I'll have to wait. Until my life upon this earth And my work here is complete And sweet memories keep me Until at last again we meet. 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